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Monday, April 21, 2014

Saying Goodbye

On Easter Sunday, my Mom passed away at the age of 85. 
She was a wonderful artist.




 Here sits her loom.....now still.


 Mom's 85th Birthday, last July. 


 I made this quilt for her birthday. 
I was testing Cheryl Arkison's pattern "Stripes" for her book A Month of Sundays and as the quilt progressed, it just seemed to have Mom's name on it. The colours reminded me of her weaving. 

Her death was very sudden....and now we face the process of saying goodbye. She lived a full, healthy, and very creative life, filled with family and friends. 

 Thank you so much, for all your heartfelt comments. Your kindness warms my heart during this difficult time.

 Every evening, since her stroke, I sit snuggled under this quilt......and I suspect that will continue, for many evenings ahead.

 Marianne


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95 comments:

  1. felicityApril 22, 2014 at 12:24 AM

    Marianne, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I'm thinking of you and your family.

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  2. Cathy in gorgeous Sonoma CountyApril 22, 2014 at 12:45 AM

    Beautiful work. So sorry for your loss. Cherish your memories

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  3. UnknownApril 22, 2014 at 1:04 AM

    Marianne, I am so very sorry for your (and your families) loss
    Your mother, like yourself, was a great artist - the weaving's you have shared with us are stunning
    My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time

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  4. Jo JoApril 22, 2014 at 1:14 AM

    Sending big love to you and your family at this really sad time… Your mum's weavings are stunning, what a talent she had. Thinking of you x

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  5. UnknownApril 22, 2014 at 1:15 AM

    I'm so sorry you've lost your Mum, that quilt you made her is beautiful, may your amazing memories of her last forever in that quilt.

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  6. Christine @ sew bossiApril 22, 2014 at 1:21 AM

    Condolences. Warm hugs from Victoria.

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  7. Deborah OHareApril 22, 2014 at 1:37 AM

    So sorry for your loss.

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  8. janApril 22, 2014 at 1:53 AM

    So sorry for you loss. Prayers are with you and your family.

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  9. CharlotteApril 22, 2014 at 1:53 AM

    so sorry for your loss, Marianne. Sending you warm wishes x

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  10. UnknownApril 22, 2014 at 1:56 AM

    Her weavings are beautiful. My thoughts are with you at this time of loss.

    Elizabeth

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  11. UnknownApril 22, 2014 at 1:56 AM

    Her weavings are beautiful. My thoughts are with you at this time of loss.

    Elizabeth

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  12. dutchcomfortApril 22, 2014 at 2:00 AM

    Marianne, I’m so sorry for your loss. Your Mother’s work is beautiful! My thoughts are with you and your family!

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  13. RuthApril 22, 2014 at 2:54 AM

    I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending you strength and hugs and the knowledge that it does get a bit easier with time.

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  14. Twinkle ToesApril 22, 2014 at 4:03 AM

    I'm so sorry to hear this. She certainly seemed to have lived her life to the full, and thankfully didn't seem to suffer at the end. Snuggle under that quilt and feel her warmth. Thinking of you and your family at this painful time. xxx

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  15. JulieApril 22, 2014 at 4:14 AM

    My mom passed away when she was 56. I was 31. The loss never goes away and thankfully, neither do the memories. You can wrap yourself up in the memories too.

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  16. UnknownApril 22, 2014 at 4:47 AM

    Marianne, I am so sorry to hear of your Mom's passing. I lost my Mom 6 years ago Mother's Day. I still think of her everyday. I love all the memories that pop up daily that remind me how special she was. Hold on to your memories and cherish the time you spent with her. Sending you prayers for strength.

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  17. Gene BlackApril 22, 2014 at 5:12 AM

    My thoughts and prayers are with you. Allow yourself time to process and grieve the loss. But more importantly remember and talk about the good times. It is a great way to ease the hurt.

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  18. AnnabellaApril 22, 2014 at 5:18 AM

    I'm so sorry for your tremendous loss.

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  19. carolApril 22, 2014 at 5:33 AM

    I'm so very sorry for your loss. I lost my mother 25 years ago, and I still miss her terribly.

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  20. KathleenApril 22, 2014 at 5:39 AM

    While you all will miss her, she is still with you every day in her astounding art. Thinking of you...

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  21. Sujata ShahApril 22, 2014 at 5:53 AM

    Marianne, I am so sorry for your loss. Her work is peaceful to look at! Nothing compares to the sorrow of loosing a parent. You never really stop missing them but time heals and helps cherish the memories. Sending prayers and love.

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  22. Anita in FloridaApril 22, 2014 at 5:57 AM

    I am so sorry about your Mom...losing one's Mom doesn't get easier...I know. You were blessed to have her in you life so long. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

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  23. cauchy09April 22, 2014 at 6:05 AM

    oh, M, I'm sorry. My thoughts are with you during this tough time. xoxo

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  24. JodiApril 22, 2014 at 6:23 AM

    my heart truly goes out to you - xoxo

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  25. Kathy PApril 22, 2014 at 6:26 AM

    So sorry for your loss Marianne. Your news hits very close to home, because my mom is about the same age and has given us some scares a few times lately. So far, her "spells" have been assumed to be mini-strokes, and I'm afraid of the big one that may be lurking... I don't know how I'll deal with it when the time comes... Prayers for you and your family at this sad and difficult time.

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  26. Daryl @ Patchouli Moon StudioApril 22, 2014 at 6:28 AM

    Marianne I am so sorry to hear about your mom. We are never truly prepared for it are we? My thought are with you. Your sweet memories will always be with you.

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  27. doloresApril 22, 2014 at 6:30 AM

    Oh Marianne, so sorry. What wonderful memories you will have of your mom...all bright and light and colorful. You will remember her with every piece of fabric you cut and stitch and that will be wonderful!

    As life fades another begins...my good friend became a grandmother on Easter Sunday....to a little girl!:)
    xo

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  28. JulieroseApril 22, 2014 at 6:46 AM

    So sorry for your loss, Marianne. Mothers and daughters have such a special relationship...may your warmest memories stay with you and keep you solaced...warm hugs, julierose

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  29. lelandavestudiosApril 22, 2014 at 6:50 AM

    I'm so sorry for your loss, Marianne. Your post was such a beautiful tribute to your mom. Wishing your peace in your heart as you make your way through these difficult times.

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  30. Cedar Ridge StudioApril 22, 2014 at 7:07 AM

    You are in my thoughts and prayers. Hugs too.

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  31. M-R CharbonneauApril 22, 2014 at 7:09 AM

    Oh Marianne, I'm so sorry for your loss. What a beautiful tribute to your mom. Her work is stunning! My condolences to you and your family.

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  32. bmayerApril 22, 2014 at 7:09 AM

    Marianne,
    I am so sorry for your loss. Loss of a parent is never easy. (I too lost my dad suddenly to a stroke at age 88. I think of him every day) How nice you have inherited your mother's artistic talent, and she will be with you always. Many blessings to you and your family.

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  33. BethApril 22, 2014 at 7:15 AM

    I am so sorry to hear of your mother's passing. I can see from her work where you get your artistic talents. That and your wonderful relationship with her are things to be grateful for.I am wishing you peace.

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  34. smazoochieApril 22, 2014 at 7:21 AM

    I'm sorry for your loss. Sudden deaths like hers are especially hard on the survivors. You have some dark days ahead, take care of yourself & keep your loved ones close.

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  35. BarbApril 22, 2014 at 7:39 AM

    Peace for your Mother and Blessings to you -

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  36. Diane MApril 22, 2014 at 7:41 AM

    Sorry for your loss. Her work is beautiful as is the quilt you made her. Be well.

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  37. roxanneApril 22, 2014 at 7:44 AM

    So sorry for your loss.

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  38. CapitolaQuilterApril 22, 2014 at 7:44 AM

    So very sorry for your loss. Best to you during these difficult times

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  39. NancyApril 22, 2014 at 7:47 AM

    Thank you for sharing your mother's creative gifts. Her weaving pieces are so lovely. I'm sorry for your loss. It's a comfort to know that she stuck with her artistry for all those years.

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  40. BrendaApril 22, 2014 at 7:49 AM

    Condolences on your loss and blessings on you as you attend to all the details that come with the death of a family member.

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  41. DoloresApril 22, 2014 at 8:07 AM

    My condolences on your loss. I lost my 94 year old mother just last month.

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  42. Susan TurneyApril 22, 2014 at 8:13 AM

    I'm so sorry. I lost my Mom suddenly, too, although she was about to turn 90. I'm thankful every day that she did go so quickly. It's hard on us but so much easier for them and I hope when it's my turn I can do the same. Your mother's art is beautiful and looks like it will fit right in with your's. may all your happy memories help you through this sad time.

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  43. DebbieApril 22, 2014 at 8:22 AM

    So very sorry. When your heart is empty, filling it with happy memories can help. Your mother's work is beautiful ~

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  44. corinaApril 22, 2014 at 8:39 AM

    I'm so sorry for your loss.Wishing you and your family all the love, strength and support you need to help you during such a difficult time.

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  45. What Comes Next?April 22, 2014 at 8:41 AM

    so sorry to hear of your loss Marianne, warm hugs to you

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  46. ColleenApril 22, 2014 at 8:47 AM

    I'm crying with you, Marianne :( What wonderful memories you must have. She'll never leave you. (((HUGS)))

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  47. LisaApril 22, 2014 at 8:56 AM

    From a creativity perspective, it is clear the apple didn't fall far from the tree. I am so sorry for your loss.

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  48. Susan RApril 22, 2014 at 9:20 AM

    I am so very sorry to hear this sad news. Thank you so much for sharing your mothers beautiful and inspiring work....

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  49. Anne / Springleaf StudiosApril 22, 2014 at 9:52 AM

    I am so sorry for the loss of your Mom. Her weavings are just beautiful. I pray you will find peace and comfort through wonderful memories of her and your time together. You obviously shared a very creative spirit.

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  50. KaraquiltsApril 22, 2014 at 10:50 AM

    I love the glimpses you've shared of your mother, her life and her art and her love. And now you can find comfort in the quilt you shared as it is filled with love from both of you. blessings, dear quilter friend ~ ~

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  51. carlaApril 22, 2014 at 11:01 AM

    Sorry for your loss...sending hugs and prayers.

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  52. MareiApril 22, 2014 at 11:09 AM

    I'm so very sorry to hear your mother has passed. I hope you can find some comfort in the art she created, the memories you shared, and the "scent" of her life still in her quilt. Peace to you and your family.

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  53. PattiApril 22, 2014 at 11:42 AM

    Truly sorry to hear of your Mom's passing, Marianne. I hope the warm, loving memories of her will help ease your pain.

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  54. suzApril 22, 2014 at 12:10 PM

    so very sorry to hear about your Mom. Thank you for sharing some of her work; the apple didn't fall far from the tree. You were fortunate to have such a wonderful and artistic Mom - those memories will always be with you.

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  55. Candied FabricsApril 22, 2014 at 12:24 PM

    Oh Marianne, I am so sorry for your loss. Your Mother was a wonderful artist, what lovely colors she wove together. My condolences....

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  56. Amy FriendApril 22, 2014 at 1:25 PM

    I'm so sorry for your loss.

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  57. Vickie WheatleyApril 22, 2014 at 4:10 PM

    What a beautiful legacy she leaves.

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  58. LeighwayApril 22, 2014 at 5:14 PM

    She has entered a consciousness of ecstasy and no limits. I think she'll continue to way show for you. Meanwhile, laugh as much as you can and talk about the funny things in her life. It will lift your energy and help soothe the shock of sudden loss. And then go and make art.

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  59. FlorenceApril 22, 2014 at 7:21 PM

    sooo sooo sorry for your loss sweetie,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,but sooo happy that she has left a sweet lady to take her place on this earth,,,,,,and as she shines down on you,,,,,you will know her love every single day of your life,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,blessings

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  60. RobbieApril 22, 2014 at 7:29 PM

    So sorry....

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  61. ChrisApril 22, 2014 at 8:09 PM

    Sounds like your mom truly lived her life, you can't ask for more than that. Thank you for sharing about her. Sorry for your loss, and peace to you as you walk through the coming days.

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  62. QuiltNut CreationsApril 22, 2014 at 11:21 PM

    So very, very sorry

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  63. myrtovlApril 23, 2014 at 1:48 AM

    My deepest condolences dear Marianne, it's been nearly four years that I lost my mother in her 90s and I still miss her, there were some things is was sharing with her that I feel I don't have anybody else to share with although I have a full family...
    Myrto

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  64. Pamela ArbourApril 23, 2014 at 4:34 AM

    So sorry to hear about your mom. I know you will miss seeing her, but you will always have her with you. Losing your loved ones is one of the hardest parts of our life's journey. May God comfort you in this time.

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  65. JenApril 23, 2014 at 5:26 AM

    Sorry to hear your mother has passed .My deepest Sympathy.The colors in your quilts will bring lovely memories of her weaving with you.

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  66. patty a.April 23, 2014 at 9:04 AM

    I am so sorry to read that your Mom passed away. My Mom passed away in Jan 2001 and I still miss not being able to talk to her. Take care and my thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.

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  67. AngieApril 23, 2014 at 9:15 AM

    So sorry to hear of your loss. Your mother sounds like an amazing, creative woman who was fortunate to live life fully until the end. I suspect that's how she would have wanted it. May that give you comfort as time goes by.

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  68. Kathy PutApril 23, 2014 at 9:58 AM

    I'm so sorry to hear of your mom's passing. I lost my mom ten years ago and I miss her every day, but I also can still hear her and know what she would say if she were here. In some ways, our moms never leave us. Hugs to you and your kids and grandkids.

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  69. Kim BatesApril 23, 2014 at 5:58 PM

    Love never dies- may you be sustained by wonderful memories of your Mom and feel her presence every day!

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  70. mommaApril 23, 2014 at 9:10 PM

    My thoughts are with you.

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  71. AnonymousApril 23, 2014 at 9:46 PM

    So sorry to hear about you loss. I lost my Dad suddenly last month and now how strange this time is
    Leona

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  72. fiberchickApril 24, 2014 at 12:56 PM

    I am so sorry for your loss Marianne...

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  73. Karen4QApril 24, 2014 at 4:15 PM

    Wishing for you.. strength in this time of sadness.

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  74. LeanneApril 24, 2014 at 7:25 PM

    Her weavings are beautiful, I am so sorry for your loss.

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  75. LynnePApril 25, 2014 at 6:42 AM

    I am so sorry to read that your mom has died. I hope your many memories of her will bring some comfort. Your mom's weavings are exquisite and very soothing on the eyes and soul. I love that you have been sitting under your mom's quilt-another way to find some comfort. Best to you and your family.

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  76. Donna DApril 25, 2014 at 9:07 AM

    I am very sorry to hear about the loss of your mother. What a wonderful gift to have shared with each other: art, fabric, design, warmth, beauty and love.

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  77. LaceflowerApril 25, 2014 at 9:24 AM

    I'm sorry for your sudden loss of your mother Marianne; it sounds like you were very lucky and had a great mom.

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  78. TriciaApril 25, 2014 at 9:57 AM

    I am so sorry for the loss of your beloved and talented mother. It must have made her so proud to have a quilting artist for a daughter!
    Take care.

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  79. PatsyApril 25, 2014 at 3:26 PM

    Marianne,

    My heart sunk when I read you had lost your mom; I'm so sorry for you. Looking through your pictures, it's easy to see how you developed such a great eye for color/shape/form and how to put them all together to create cohesive art. What a great mom you've had! She will live on in you. Take care during this tender time.

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  80. momijiApril 26, 2014 at 10:15 AM

    My condolences about your mother. She certainly was a talented fibre artist, and she must have loved having an equally talented daughter. I hope the many warm memories of all that you shared will provide much solace as you mourn your loss.

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  81. LisaApril 26, 2014 at 7:07 PM

    I hope that you're hanging in there ...

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  83. Sewing Up A StormApril 27, 2014 at 7:44 AM

    I am so sorry for your loss. You mother did amazing work. I know you will miss her very much. Prayers go out for you and your loved ones.

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  84. NancyApril 27, 2014 at 8:00 AM

    I am so sorry for your loss. Your Mom will continue to live in your cherished memories of her.

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  85. leanneApril 28, 2014 at 10:46 PM

    so sorry to hear about your mum - so glad you have the quilt to cuddle into

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  86. ChristinaApril 29, 2014 at 9:00 AM

    Marianne, it is a deep grief to know, the death of your mother. I am sorry to hear of it, I hope you have the support you need right now. I hope you are being compassionate with yourself. Thank you for sharing her beautiful work. Much love to you.

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  87. Sharon RobinsonApril 30, 2014 at 10:46 AM

    I'm so sorry to read of your loss. My heart goes out to you. Cherish all those good memories.

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  88. Mary KeaslerMay 2, 2014 at 10:40 AM

    Marianne, I am so sorry to read of the lose of your mother. You have written a beautiful tribute to her and her art. My sympathies to you and your family.

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  89. cindiMay 10, 2014 at 8:02 PM

    I was so sorry to hear of the loss of your mother. I wanted to let you know I was thinking of you as Mothers Day approaches. I am sure it will be a difficult day for you but hope that you will find comfort in the memories of her. The pictures of her work shows me where you got your artistic talents. You are definitely your mothers daughter in that regard. I will continue to keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers and look forward to you returning to the blogisphere.

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  90. PattilouMay 13, 2014 at 5:45 PM

    Tender thoughts for you and the love you shared with your mom. You are indeed lucky to have such pleasant memories.

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  91. Cheryl ArkisonMay 14, 2014 at 7:22 AM

    Oh, I am so sorry to hear this news. Big hugs out to such a wonderful soul. Her weaving looks incredible! And your quilt was indeed perfect for her. I hope you find small comforts in the moments and large comforts in the stories, the art, the memories.

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  92. O'QuiltsMay 19, 2014 at 6:56 PM

    I am finally able to check out my blogs and I see this one. I am glad you posted about it. It is helpful. It is such a crazy life we lead. Such stressors..abrupt loss. I can see how you got your art from her...so wonderful..hugs

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Thanks again for all your wonderful comments
Marianne